It has been nearly six months since my engagement to Deborah and life since then has taken a toll. In these six months many events have crossed by all of which I consider for the good.
Seriously I thought getting into an engagement and heading towards marriage would be a walk in the park (which in truth I still do believe) but at the end of the day I think it’s us who make things too complicated.
With all the decisions and planning’s laid on me and my fiancé’s head, it seems that this is the biggest event we are planning in our lives which is filled with frustration, anger, judgment and the list goes on.. But at the end of the day it seems that it puts in the light out realities and this is exactly what we love about each other, exactly what helps us understand each other.
Though at the moment things just seem so difficult and not manageable at all! But I know at the end that I am going to walk down the church aisle and say my vows, committing myself to the person I respect , love and honor.
PS: I know i am getting a bit too religious but for all this couples who are thinking of tying the knot or have already tied the it, you should read an important document which Blessed John Paul the II wrote for families and married couples named the Familiaris Consortio.